When the back turns around, look, dad is so handsome!

　　CCTV News (Reporter Meng Lizhen, Wang Jiaying, Wang Yuxi)What does a father look like in your eyes? The one who bears the burden of life, just to make his children live easily and safely; The one who hides his sad tears and is happy and funny in front of you; The one who pretends not to care, but dries his clothes with a hair dryer while you are asleep; The one who took your hands and taught you to stand up again … …

　　The back is not only literature, but also the image left by "father" in most of ordinary life. This Father’s Day, we interviewed four children, listened to their father’s appearance in their hearts, and turned their backs.

　　Linna: My imperfect father.

　　It’s only two hours’ drive from Beijing to Jinan, and Linna will go back almost every holiday. And every time Linna comes home, her father will park her car in the parking lot of the railway station and let her drive away so that she can use it when she is on vacation in her hometown.

　　Since my father had a car, this tacit understanding has been going on for four or five years. The father and the daughter basically don’t have to meet. Linna already had the car key. Only once, she got on the high-speed train. Suddenly, she found that she didn’t bring it, so she quickly asked her father to wait for her at the station.

　　"Just let her drive for a few days, not buy her a car." Linna’s mother didn’t agree with her ex-husband’s behavior. My parents divorced shortly after Linna was born, and my father was at fault. In the memory of the mother, the house and custody belonged to Lin, which made up for the harm caused by the failure of marriage to the young mother at that time. Whenever my mother has some complaints about my father, Linna is silent. She knows that it is not easy to be a single mother, but she doesn’t hate her father in her heart.

　　Appearance is the key word that Linna and her father can be most associated with. "It looks too much like your father" is a sentence that Linna has heard the most from the big population since she was a child. With heavy eyebrows and big eyes, Lin’s father was a famous handsome boy in the courtyard when he was young. His advantage was inherited, but Lina also inherited his father’s wide chin and big skeleton. Copying with girls is not an advantage. "My dad is very handsome, especially when he is old. Alas, he just didn’t inherit it." Lin Na is a little proud to say it. One year, she sent a photo with her father for the New Year in a circle of friends and wrote, "Dad is really handsome." There were many praises at the bottom. It was the only time that she exposed her father’s positive photo. At that time, she blocked her mother.

　　"I don’t live together, it’s not like I don’t have a father," Linna always felt that way. It was not until middle school that Linna felt different from others when she counted the family situation in the class and asked the divorced students to raise their hands. Excellent grades, Linna has never been the kind of child that parents worry about in her studies. Her mother is in charge of everything in life, leaving even less things for her father to worry about. Time is a red line that transcends the affection between father and daughter. Although Mother Lin never stops it, Lina can’t see her father every day like an ordinary family.

　　Therefore, in any holiday when he is going to travel far away, Lin’s father will look for opportunities to take his daughter out and have fun. Compared with her mother’s strictness, the time spent with her father is obviously much easier, but Linna won’t reveal it. She knows that it is unfair to her mother, and the mother and daughter should be "one country".

　　In fact, Linna envies her father’s "straightforwardness". In recent years, my father has never been shy about having a girlfriend, and he can properly handle the relationship between children and adults. Lin’s mother has always been single. Linna doesn’t want her mother to work so hard for herself, but it has been unsuccessful to encourage her to remarry. She wants her mother to live like her father, but she is always evaluated as "that is irresponsible."

　　What is responsibility? Dad must not be a perfect father, but there are some things that only dad can do, such as moving after graduating from college, such as picking up and dropping off every time he goes back to the city. Of course, these are really too little compared with mom’s efforts. Dad’s financial compensation is insignificant to others. My mother complained that dad’s alimony was only given for 18 years, and she didn’t pay for college tuition, but every mobile phone before her work was bought by dad.

　　Lina doesn’t want to judge her father too much. She just says that dad doesn’t nag and will deal with problems like a man.

　　The scars of family breakdown are slowly diluted by time, and Lin’s father has now become a loner. The new house that my father bought a few years ago is not far from his new home. My mother has some whispers in her heart. It’s not that she has been playing all her life and expecting her daughter to provide for him. Lina didn’t speak. She only knew that she was her father’s only child in the world. She remembered that her father told her more than once that she would go to a nursing home when she was old.

　　Zhou Yi: Dad taught me to face bitterness with a smile.

　　"Zhou Yi, come on!" This is what my father often says to Zhou Yi, and it is also Zhou Yi’s favorite sentence. "Because this sentence makes me full of strength." Sitting in a wheelchair, Zhou Yi’s mouth rose, revealing a shy smile.

　　June 12, 2010, this day seems to be engraved in Zhou Yi’s father’s heart. Although he doesn’t want to mention it, he prefers to call this suffering day for Zhou Yi and even the whole family "Rebirth Day". On this day, 19-year-old Zhou Yi accidentally fell from the deck of a 10-meter-high cargo ship at work, and this originally dull and happy family followed rolling in the deep.

　　"Dad took care of me for nine years and also worked as my rehabilitation teacher for nine years." Zhou Yi said.

　　Knowing the news of Zhou Yi’s accident, Zhou Dad rushed from his hometown Linyi, Shandong Province to Zhoushan, Zhejiang Province, where Zhou Yi worked. The road was particularly long and didn’t arrive until noon the next day.

　　In Zhoushan People’s Hospital, Dad Zhou saw Zhou Yi lying in the intensive care unit, covered in tubes and shivering all over, and recalled the scene that year. Dad Zhou’s voice trembled and he held back his tears. "The cervical spine was broken and the lungs were injured. Zhou Yi had a fever almost every day." When doing cervical internal fixation surgery, Zhou Dad didn’t have time to think about it, so he signed the consent form for the operation. He said, we all want our son to be well, no matter what conditions are mentioned, just sign it.

　　The operation was successful, but the intern’s words made Zhou’s father fall into despair — — "He must have been in a wheelchair all his life." At first, in Zhou’s father’s cognition, "it hurts the muscles and bones for a hundred days", and his son will be fine after a while, and he will be as energetic as before. "I didn’t think about this problem, but it was a worldwide medical problem."

　　When a son is 19, he has to be in a wheelchair? Dad wished it was just a joke played by God.

　　Dad started a long rehabilitation training with Zhou Yi. In the first three years, Zhou Yi’s unit found Zhou Yi a rehabilitation hospital in Beijing, and Zhou’s father and mother quit their jobs to accompany their son full-time. Every time the rehabilitator comes, Zhou’s father studies extra hard, and keeps every move and style of the rehabilitator in his eyes and mind.

　　"After three years, Zhou Yi lost some money and left it alone." Zhou Dad returned to his hometown Linyi with Zhou Yi. "After all, his brother is there, and they have a care between them. The cost in Beijing is too high, and we can’t afford it ourselves."

　　Back home, Zhou Dad insisted on doing rehabilitation training for Zhou Yi every day, never stopping, turning over, climbing, standing and walking … … With the help of my father, Zhou Yi repeated it thousands of times, just like when I was a child. Today, Zhou Yi has been able to walk thirty or forty meters with the help of his father. From completely unable to take care of themselves, to semi-self-care, this is a miracle for Zhou’s father.

　　In front of Zhou Yi, my father is an optimist.

　　Every morning, Zhou’s father will dress Zhou Yi, shoes and socks, and then put him in a wheelchair. "Well, what we do in three minutes and five minutes, it may take him two minutes to get a toothbrush. Although it is slower, he does all these things himself."

　　In front of Zhou Yi, my father is an optimist, dancing, singing and doing strange actions, which often makes Zhou Yi laugh. But how can there be so many happy things in the world? "I will be sad when I am not in front of the children, but I don’t want to show it in front of the children. I don’t want to bring him negative emotions."　

　　Facing the bitterness of life with a smile is the most precious wealth that Zhou Yi saw and learned from his father.

　　Zhou Yi’s leg hurts like a knife when it’s cloudy. "Sometimes I go to the balcony or corridor and talk to myself and my illness, just say, you hurt, hurt, and the more I hurt, the more I ignore you, just like it."　

　　In March this year, Zhou Yi uploaded a video of his father taking care of himself and helping him with rehabilitation training on a video social platform, which attracted many people’s attention, and many people were moved by the optimism of their father and son.

　　"In the first nine years, I didn’t earn a dime. I recovered and exercised at home every day. I relied on my parents to do everything. I felt that the days were copied. Today I copied yesterday and tomorrow I copied today. Now I have a new circle of friends. I can feel my own value and share some pressure for my parents."

　　On Father’s Day last year, Zhou Yi bought a watch for his father with the money he earned. Although the watch was not expensive, Zhou’s father brought it and was excited for a long time.

　　In a short video of Zhou Yifa, Zhou’s father ran in front and Zhou Yi followed in a wheelchair, and the two of them laughed so wantonly.

　　Happy: I used all my luck to meet my father.

　　"If a father has a shape, I think it is a triangle. Because the triangle is the most stable shape, I know that no matter what my future is, my father will always be the one who never gives up and loves me. "

　　Happy photo with dad

　　Happy parents divorced when she was over one year old, and her father brought her up alone. "Actually, when Mom and Dad divorced, I was awarded to my mother."

　　"Many people have advised my father to marry again, but he is worried that his stepmother will be bad to me and has been unwilling. Grandma is in poor health and mental state. She has been in bed for many years. My father has been taking care of her and often can’t sleep all night. " 　

　　Happy high school is a day school. When I was in senior three, I needed to study at night. My father would pick me up at the station every night and go home happily. "It’s very cold in winter, and he will always warm my hands. When I get home, I will bring a bowl of hot noodles for me to eat."

　　When I was a volunteer in a university, the organizer only gave me one dress, but I needed to wear it every day. I changed it and washed it as soon as I got home at night, and I couldn’t dry it in the morning. But happy is wearing dry clothes in the morning. After I was happy, I learned that it was my father who blew it dry with a hair dryer before she got up. "I was afraid of disturbing me, and I took it to his room and closed the door to blow it secretly."

　　Although I don’t say it, I always know that my father raised himself under great pressure, not only financial pressure, but also a lot of cynicism from the outside world. "People in the same community laughed at him, and seven brothers and sisters looked down on him, but he persisted. I also have this in my personality ‘ Rebellion ’ Factor, no matter what others say, do what you want to do and what you should do. "

　　"My dad has a bad temper. He can go around the world three times when he loses his temper with me." Said with a happy smile.

　　In her impression, her father lost his temper with her for the first time because the kindergarten taught a children’s song "Only Mom is Good in the World" and sang and sang when he was happy to go home. "Then my father was particularly angry and said that only Mom is good, then you go to your mother." Another time, when I was in primary school, I had to write a composition, "My Mom". When I came home happily, I asked my father how to write it. My father was so angry that he cried. "Where can I find a mother for you?"

　　Happy when I was a child, I always felt that I was an unfortunate person, but as I grew older, he learned the tenacity and difficulty of my father. "It turned out that I spent all my luck meeting my father." Happy to say that although fate did not give him a good wife, he had her as a good daughter. "I will try my best to make myself better so that my father can feel it."

　　The true open-mindedness is that you can still love life after seeing the essence of it.

　　"Dad is bound by his family too much. In the eyes of outsiders, he is a family-oriented man, but I know him. He actually loves freedom in his bones." I hope that one day, my father can pursue his own life, love and happiness, travel far and wide, paint whenever he likes, and sing whenever he likes.

　　Lingling: When I was a child, I could always see far from my father’s shoulder.　

　　A few days ago, Lingling posted a video about her father on the short video social platform. In the essay, Lingling wrote: "In 1985, this soldier took me home and raised me. When I was young, my father was a mountain. Sitting on his shoulders, I could always see far."　

　　Lingling said that she wanted to record her father in this way, thanking him for his parenting.

　　Sitting on his shoulder can always see far away.

　　"Dad is a veteran." At the age of 37, he adopted Lingling. Lingling heard from her aunt that she was about the same age as a "mouse" when she was taken, and no one thought she would survive. At that time, my grandmother didn’t agree with Lingling’s parents. After all, they already had three children. "And my brothers and sisters are all older, and I think I will become a burden or trouble."

　　But Lingling’s father insisted. Lingling’s two brothers and one sister are much older than themselves, and they all love themselves very much. The brothers still call themselves Little Daughter. Talking about this, Lingling has been smiling and her face is full of happiness.

　　Every time she goes home, Lingling will go to her aunt’s house for a while. What my aunt told her the most was, "Be sure to treat your parents well. It’s really not easy for them to raise you.".

　　Aunt said that Lingling loved to cry when she was a child, and she had to hold it at night to fall asleep, so her parents had to hold it in turn at midnight and midnight. No matter where they go, they take Lingling with them. There is a saying in their hometown that "step by step, step by step". Everyone in the village knows that Dad has a bad temper, but he never gets angry with his "charming daughter". Lingling said that she was a "every cloud has a silver lining" and was adopted since she was a child, but she got more love for it.

　　When I was a child, no matter what difficulties I encountered or what great disasters I made, Lingling always had an "obsession" in her heart — — It’s okay, go home and tell dad that there is nothing that dad can’t solve. Dad is my day and everything to me.

　　Lingling remembers playing with children once, and getting annoyed when playing. They called themselves wild children. "After listening to this, Dad went to their house with a guy and smashed a hole in the door of one of them, warning them that whoever said that again would never stop with them."

　　One summer when Lingling was seven or eight years old, her mother almost fell into a coma because of food poisoning. Her anxious father found a scooter, put her mother on it gently, and turned her head to pull the scooter. At the moment, she only heard her father "hiss". A steel nail on the side of the scooter pierced her father’s calf, which was 3 cm deep. Dad pulled it out directly and wrapped it with a piece of cloth, but in a short time, the cloth was soaked with blood, and the blood flowed into his boots along his legs. Lingling cried and pushed the scooter to the hospital behind her father. Looking back, Lingling was both distressed and moved by her father’s tall and strong back. My mother was rescued because she was sent to the hospital in time. But dad’s wound was not handled in time, which left a hidden danger. Until now, it will itch as long as it is cloudy, and it will fester if it is not treated in time.

　　In the winter of the third year, Lingling lived on campus. One day, my father walked seven or eight miles in the snow and came to school to find himself. I didn’t know what time it was when I got to school. After seeing myself, I eagerly asked if I had a stomachache or discomfort. "When I spoke, my father’s tongue was a little stiff with cold." It turned out that he and his mother were sick, thinking it was food poisoning, and they were afraid that they would have a stomachache, so they came to see it. Looking at her father’s eager appearance and those soaked shoes, Lingling couldn’t help crying.

　　On the wedding day, I thought that I was going to stay away from my father and marry far away. Lingling was empty in her heart and wanted to hug her father, but she couldn’t find it anywhere. "Until the family photo was finally recorded, I didn’t know where my mother found her father who had swollen her eyes."

　　No blood is better than blood. Now, as a mother, Lingling knows more about the hardships of her parents and is more grateful for her father’s selfless love. "He holds up a sky for me."